Loving Someone

It’s easy to love someone. Just say to yourself that you like him… you like him… and you like him. Don’t let your mind fly to anywhere. Then, look him carefully, from head to leg. Find a reason to love him. Find the interesting part of him, even his hand, his voice, his eyes, or else. Now, that’s enough. Just still put your love in it, one day you will suddenly felt that you fall in love with him.
Maybe after you read this you will say, “Loving part of body won’t love forever. It’s not a way”.
You will absolutely fall in love with somebody if you don’t put away the feeling you got. Just still think of he, still like him, still find another interesting of him, and you’ll really love him. My friend ever said that love is like tree. The tree won’t grow if you don’t seed it. And it also won’t grow if you never water it. If you want it to grow well and health, you need to take care of it. If it at last grown, but you let it by itself, then it will die.
Perhaps, loving someone is easy. But you need many attention, patience, and desire in a long time until you felt that you can’t live without him.
It does not force you to love but make you believe by yourself that you fall in love. Like, when you are almost gave up, you or someone tell you that giving up do not like you, you are strong, you can do it, or something like that, believe it or not, you’ll really turn strong.

In other hand, to forget someone is much harder. It’s conflict between heart and mind. More your mind says no, more your heart shouts yes. So, don’t force yourself to do it. That’s why people busied themselves to forget someone. That’s a nice way. You also can try to hate him. Just remember what bad thing that he have done to you and all bad about him. Or you need to find another one to replace him, for you to put your love. It’s also need strong desire.

How to make someone give up on you? It was easy. Just when you want to turn someone down, give them a best reason that you can find for them to understand why you want to end this relation.
If you want a girl accept your love, you just don’t give up. Dramatically tell them how you serious with this thing. If you don’t know how to do something dramatically, then just watch romantic movie, you will see how people giving their life to someone and make someone touched. Do what you can as proof. Let she sit in the highest and biggest place of your heart. If you can, take care of her more than yourself. And don’t force anyone to do anything. Give her some time to think. If she at last doesn’t accept you, then it’s her choice. Just appreciate that.

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